An extra post - Ive just gotten home and found evilness permeating my home. A telephone message from my mother (and I use that term loosely) about not coming to my sisters 60th birthday weekend as it had all "gotten out of hand" and then an email from my eldest sister filled with utter crap. I am so angry at this moment. I have emailed both sisters and said that I am going to sort this out one way or the other and I will deal with Mum tomorrow.
I am past caring about their feelings and am just glad that Dad isnt alive to see this all.
What in the hell is wrong with my family. Thank God for Mark and the kids - they help keep me sane.